The first step I took was to put them on in front of her while I would be getting dressed for work, completely covered by trousers except for my ankles. She would make a few glances my way and smile at me when our eyes met. She actually thought I looked good in them. And I absolutely loved watching her slip into pantyhose, something she did often for her work "uniform".
A few times I had her leave her pantyhose on while we started foreplay, allowing me to caress her legs as she'd wrap them around my body, clamping around my legs. It was such a turn on, it didn't take long before she'd have to take them off so we could move forward to the "next level." Also, we did try a few foreplay sessions where I'd wear a pair of tights and she wearing pantyhose, and then we'd rub our nylon encased legs together while touching all over with our hands. A very pleasant experience... and yet, some part of me would feel self conscious and I'd be ready to slip out of the tights.
One day, she spotted my unitard as I took it down from drying. She was intrigued by it. I gave her some silly fib about it being from a costume, which was partially true (I used it for a costume after I'd already bought it for just wearing for fun), and then she wanted to try it on. I would have been a little too big on her, so... I took out a smaller one I'd bought some earlier time ago. We both wore them and then indulged in foreplay. It was fun! She found the slick fabric and interesting sensation.
[We did have fun, rubbing each other's bodies while tightly enclosed in Lycra spandex, but, it was the kind of thing that was just a passing curiosity for her. After this, she never asked me if I wanted to do it again, and I felt kind of funny about it. In retrospect, I should have encouraged having fun with this a bit more. We could have worked on making variations of the unitards with "access" ports so that we wouldn't have to take them off, that kind of thing. But alas, I didn't think of it then.]
Ohh to rub each other while encased in nylons and tights is such an incredible turn on. I wish the mrs. and I would do it more than just the occassional time (it has gotten harder to explore our sexuality since we moved in together, because she still has adult children at home...time to move out kiddies). It was so much fun and more often when she was at my place and it was just the two of us. But I am hopeful that the empty nest will eventually let us explore again.
ReplyDeleteAs you said hindsight is always 20-20, but if you get the opportunity definitely embrace it and just enjoy the nylon rubbing while you can. The good thing is that we now have our memories and those can't be taken away from you. I often say the biggest sex organ we have is our brains.
Yeah, adult children can really put a dampener on spontaneity and freedom! Well, being adult it can't be too much longer before they're out on their own. It sounds like your wife has a pleasantly open mind about sexuality, something I imagine you greatly appreciate.
DeleteLol, with today's economy you never know. I'm old school - you grow up and it's time to move out. My wife - is having a harder time kicking her babies out than I did mine. She does have an open mind about sexuality between the two of us behind the bedroom doors which is greatly appreciated!! Though she will never go beyond those boundaries, which is OK. I find it funny that she will rant against Hooters and how could I ever go there if that was my daughter waitressing, but in the context of the bedroom she will watch a porn movie with me even though that is somebody's daughter. I guess we all put some sort of boundaries around our sexuality or what we share in public and what we share in private. Sort of like I don't really share my pantyhose fetish in public at least not without a semblance of anonymity.
DeleteI love pantyhose too, i wear it long time my wife knows about it. even I like sleep on it. Mostly I like feeling of touch I like how it looks, it is very convinient. And finally what a problem if men wear tights or pantyhose. Look around most of women wear pants and what? So wear tight if you like it. Be your self!
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